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May 4, 2011

The Enneagram Institute Relationships Workshop: November 2011, near SFO

Dr. Ronna Phifer-Ritchie, All Rights Reserved 2012

The Enneagram Relationships Workshop:

The Dynamics of Intimacy and Interpersonal Effectiveness

November 5-6, 2011

A Workshop at beautiful Mercy Center, Burlingame, CA.

A life without relationships… it’s impossible. Relationships are core to our existence, and have an enormous impact on our identity, self-worth, and success in the world. They can be rewarding and intriguing, as well as baffling and sometimes painful. How we interact with others provides a key to our psychological and spiritual development.

The Enneagram offers a profound and immensely practical way to understand and shift your relationships with others.

In this authorized Riso-Hudson workshop:

· Deepen your awareness of how automatic and core thinking and emotional dynamics impact relationships;
· Explore your historical conflict/coping patterns and learn effective methods you can use for more effective communication.
· Discover how the three Instinctual Variants (Subtypes) affect primary motivations and priorities in your relationships.
· Experience the impact of increasing your presence on the health of your relationships.

This authorized Riso-Hudson workshop is recommended for couples, single individuals who are interested in creating conscious relationships, parents, adult children of elderly parents, professionals who work closely with clients and anyone having challenges in their relationships.

Faculty:

Dr. Roxanne Howe-Murphy is Principal of LifeWise Enneagram Institute, an executive coaching company, and Director of the Enneagram Institute of the San Francisco Bay Area. Howe-Murphy is the author of Deep Coaching: Using the Enneagram as a Catalyst for Profound Change, and is the founding teacher of the Deep Coaching Certification Program.

Dr. Ronna Phifer-Ritchie, Principal of Enneagrowth, is a consultant and public speaker. She holds a doctorate in counseling psychology and a master’s in marriage and family therapy . Phifer-Ritchie is a certified life coach and a researcher in Relationships and the Enneagram.    She is currently engaged in a relationships project with Riso and Hudson.

TO REGISTER by credit card:   http://enneagramcalifornia.com/riso-hudson-workshops/the-dynamics-of-interpersonal-effectiveness-and-intimacy-relationships

Full Retreat (residential rate) – $492  (early bird rate: $467)  (Includes room and board Friday night through Sunday lunch;  Workshop starts on Saturday morning)

Commuter – $367 (early bird rate: $342)  (Includes lunch on Saturday and Sunday; dinner is on your own Saturday evening)

Early bird deadline is  Sept. 23, 2011

Additional questions? Send an email to Ronna at Ronna@EnneagramInstitute.com or call 408-398-7111.

MORE INFO:

1) This course is highly recommended for the Deep Coaching Certification Program. (www.deepcoachinginstitute.com)

2) *CEU’s: This course meets the requirements for 15 hours of Continuing Education Credit for MFT’s and LCSW’s as required by the California Board of Behavioral Sciences. $25.00 administration fee.

3) Cancellation policy: In the event you need to cancel, a $35.00 fee will be deducted from your refund up to 60 days before the 1st day of the workshop. From 8-59 days before the 1st day of the workshop, 50% of the full payment will be refunded. There will be no refunds within 1 week of the workshop.

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Your Journey of Growth: Working with the Dynamism & Levels of the Enneagram: September 2012 Retreat, Mercy Center, Burlingame

Dr. Ronna Phifer-Ritchie, All Rights Reserved 2012

 

Your Journey of Growth:

Working with the Dynamism and Levels of the Enneagram

A Retreat with Roxanne Howe-Murphy and Ronna Phifer-Ritchie

through Mercy Retreat and Conference Center, Burlingame, CA

  

September 14-16, 2012

The Levels of Development LOD), one of the most profound contemporary contributions to the Enneagram field and identified by Don Riso and Russ Hudson, explains the vertical dimension to the personality types.

The Levels help us track our movement along a continuum toward more freedom, consciousness, expansiveness, and Being in the higher Levels (or toward more reactivity and self-destructiveness in the lower ones).

By introducing this “vertical axis” to the types, the Levels explain some of the most important things that we find in human nature—fluidity and change, resistance and conflict, freedom and compulsion—among many human qualities. Working with the Levels points us to where we are in our journey of growth, and guides us toward greater health and transformation.

In this retreat, you can expect to:

* Recognize the dynamics of the psychological and spiritual movement in your life that are explained through the Enneagram.
* Awaken to inner personal cues that guide you to higher levels of health.
* Experience a deep grounding in presence, through the teachings, exercises, music, and meditation.
* Work with the Enneagram in advanced ways that facilitate practical applications in your professional and personal life.

The Levels of Development bring extraordinary power to our inner journeys. The Riso-Hudson innovation is the only Enneagram work to be specifically endorsed by Ken Wilbur who has stated that only with this vertical dimension taken into account, does the Enneagram system move toward being a complete psychology.

To Register:

Contact Mercy Center directly:   http://www.mercy-center.org/calendar.html

2300 Adeline Dr Burlingame CA 94010  | (T) 650.340.7474  (F) 650.340.1299  mc@mercywmw.org

Hours:

Friday, Sept 14th : 7-9:30 pm
Saturday, Sept 15th: 9 am-noon; 3:30-6:00 and 7:00-9:30 pm
Sunday, Sept 16th: 9 am-noon; -1:00-3:00 pm

Faculty:

Dr. Roxanne Howe-Murphy is Principal of LifeWise Enneagram Institute, an executive coaching company, and Director of the Enneagram Institute of the San Francisco Bay Area. Howe-Murphy is the author of Deep Coaching: Using the Enneagram as a Catalyst for Profound Change, and is the founding teacher of the Deep Coaching Certification Program.

Dr. Ronna Phifer-Ritchie, Principal of Enneagrowth, is a consultant and public speaker. She holds a doctorate in counseling psychology and a master’s in marriage and family therapy . Phifer-Ritchie is a certified life coach and a researcher in early Christian studies and the Enneagram. She is currently engaged in a relationships project with Riso and Hudson.


To Register:  http://www.mercy-center.org/Flyers_2010/0521Enneagram/retreat.html

MORE INFO:

1) This course is a requirement for the Deep Coaching Certification Program.

2) CEU’s: This course meets the requirements for 12 hours of Continuing Education Credit for MFT’s and LCSW’s as required by the California Board of Behavioral Sciences. $25.00 administration fee paid onsite.

September 8, 2010

Professional Relationships – Work Team Functioning & Don Riso’s “Nine Domains of Functioning”

Dr. Ronna Phifer-Ritchie, All Rights Reserved 2012

Professional  Relationships  – Work Team Functioning and Riso’s Nine Domains Theory

Our workplaces are systems of relationships, and the healthier those systems are, the better the work they produce.  A work team has a kind of interpersonal “personality,” a style of relating that can be deadening or exhilarating, inflexible or adaptive.   Even a basic understanding of personality and its effect on interpersonal style can help members navigate the often difficult terrain of professional connections.  And the Enneagram of Personality is probably the most powerful tool on the planet for that kind of assessment, awareness raising, and deep transformation of the ways we show up in the work world.  However, Don Riso’s recent deepening of Enneagram nine-point personality typology into the more fundamental theory of the “Nine Domains of Functioning” could yield important shifts in the way personality experts work with the interpersonal challenges that work groups and organizations face daily.   ( http://www.enneagraminstitute.com/articles/NArtBackgrounds.asp  )  

The ability to form and maintain good relationships has been repeatedly demonstrated to be the single most potent factor in professional success.  Whether we are at a roundtable with colleagues brainstorming every phase of production, from the first kernel of an idea to the day the product hits store shelves, or at the computer sending a first draft of a manuscript that took eight months in a remote rural cabin to finish over to a trusted editor, at some point we bring our work to the world of professional relationships.  And, for better or worse, we bring our interpersonal style along with it.   As a species, we have figured out that the ground we gain by engaging with others (at some point) during the work process is worth the relational hurdles that may ensue.   

Those relational hurdles are a product of each work team’s unique combination of interpersonal styles.  With training in practices for style assessment, awareness, and transformation at the team level, as well as the individual level, the team relational chemistry can be continually analyzed and improved.  In a sense, these practices keep organizations on their growing edge by dealing with relational issues before those issues slow progress and/or innovation.

Riso notes that:  “Systems which are weak or lacking in even a few of the Domains are not likely to function well or to survive for long. Those in which all nine Domains are present and functioning well, however, not only have a better chance of surviving, but of growing and becoming better functioning and more robust.”   (http://www.enneagraminstitute.com/articles/NArtBackgrounds.asp) Just as individuals function better as a broader pallet of personality strengths becomes accessible to them in life situations, all relational systems function better as more of the personality strengths come into the interpersonal mix. 

Because the Enneagram is such a universally applicable psychological growth tool, unmatched in the world of personality science in its capacity to guide people into the unlimited kaleidoscope of potential in human behavior, emotional responsiveness, and mental awakening, it is reasonable to assume (in this author’s opinion) that all of the Nine Enneagram Domain strengths Riso discovered are applicable to bringing professional relationships up to optimal functioning and productivity.  As you contemplate the brief descriptors of the Nine Domains and their possible relational counterparts in organizational life (below), think about what factors are present or missing in your professional connections:

Domain 1

“Need for Principles, Order, and Ethics” (Who is embodying the reminders to maintain a blameless, honorable position in relationship to our surrounding community and the world?   Is there respect for the voices for balance, objectivity, logic, fairness, justice and order around the work table, and within my own being?  What are the implied interpersonal ethics of this team?)

Domain 2

“Need for Personal Caring, and Connections with others”  (Which colleagues keep the reminders in front of the organization that people need love, appreciation, and care?   Is there room here for the connection, warmth and personal relationship vital to any significant contribution I or anyone makes to the workplace, and vital to any significant contribution the workplace makes to the world?)

Domain 3

“Need for Self-Improvement and Advancement and Recognition”  (In this circle of coworkers, do we feel good about ourselves in each other’s presence?   Is the air filled with liking, esteem, admiration, and valuing during meetings?     Who carries the mantel of mining and mentoring the irreplaceable potential and talent of the outstanding individuals coming up through our organization?)

Domain 4

“Need for Personal Meaning and the Ability to find Aesthetic Satisfaction”  (Is there a balance between valuing the group’s desire to complete tasks and valuing each member’s desire to understand him or herself, and his or her feelings and motivations in regard to those tasks?   Do we raise each other’s awareness about the fact that life is short, and that the many hours of it we spend on work need to be sourced in a unique sense of purpose, doing that which is personally meaningful and beautiful in some way?)

Domain 5

“Need for Knowledge and In-Depth Exploration of Reality”  (Are there members of our work community who focus our attention on the importance of knowledge, understanding, and expertise?   Do we join with them in patient respect for the infinite complexity in the universe and the need to continue seeking objective truth?  Is there time committed in our meetings to study reality in depth without interference or prejudice?)

Domain 6

“Need for Belonging and to Give and Receive Group Support”  (Are there some of our cohorts who frequently help to create a genuine team spirit?  Do we experience camaraderie, belonging, and support, a sense of a work “home” or “family” in this workplace?    Are we able to connect with each other in our efforts, and share an experience of contributing to something larger than self?)   

Domain 7

“Need for Variety, Freedom for Experimentation, and Change”  (Someone in the group championing change, variety?  Someone making sure there is plenty of mental and emotional stimulation in the work environment?    Are we able to stay in a continual, free, vibrant exchange of ideas with one another?   Do we harness the power life’s appetites, enjoyment and gratitude during project hours, instead of relegating those joy juices to Friday afternoons?

Domain 8

“Need for Self-Assertion, Independence of Decision-Making and Action”  (Who at the table is known for the ability to both defend and assert themselves?   Are we able to be with each other’s need for strength, grounded power, and even “against other” energy, if the situation demands it?    Are independence, taking initiative, and setting self-determined goals and achieving them honored on this team because we see how those abilities in any colleague can benefit all of us?)

Domain 9

“Need for Stability, Harmony, and Effortless Flow”   (Where are the steady team mates who can bring us into peace of mind amid the many changes and losses throughout the work cycles?   Are we able to truly see the significant contribution of grounded calm these coworkers make?  Do we seek to understand our connection to each other, and our connection to the many layers of larger work systems, in ways that help resolve conflicts and tensions, and to detoxify the work environment?  )

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